WINTERLUST LODGE (Holiday play party)
When: Dec 20, 2025 at 8:30pm
Where: Sawtelle (90064) *Please note, we are no longer in West Hollywood
Come in from the cold, and melt into desire.
Lovely Fate invites you to slip into the warmth of WINTERLUST LODGE — a decadent alpine retreat where snow falls outside, embers glow within, and every guest arrives with heat and hunger.
On Saturday, December 20, our Sawtelle venue transforms into an intimate holiday hideaway dripping with winter magic and slow-burn seduction. Think crackling fireplaces, fur throws, candlelit corners, and the soft hush of snowfall against frosted windows. Step inside from the cold and let your body thaw as anticipation builds in the warmth of the room—and in the warmth of the people around you.
Wander through cozy chambers scented with pine and spice, slip into nooks perfect for whispered invitations, and discover rooms where sensual delights unfold with velvet heat. Expect sweet treats, sexy surprises, playful gifts tucked under the tree, and mistletoe hung exactly where it’s meant to tempt you. The lodge staff may offer more than hot cocoa… and guests may find themselves tangled together, shedding layers as the night gets hotter.
This isn’t just a play party—it’s a night of winter heat, decadent touch, and alpine indulgence, where bodies warm each other, fantasies melt in the firelight, and pleasure becomes its own holiday tradition.
Dress code
Think après-ski meets sensual holiday sparkle - revealing cozy knits, faux fur, thigh-highs, thermals, and alpine-chic lingerie. Add a touch of Holiday heat with velvet, red satin, metallics, mistletoe accents, or anything that says winter magic with a seductive edge. Go cozy, go festive, or go spicy -but make it alluring.
Details
What Awaits You:
💋 A playground of pleasure, crafted for both the daring and the demure
🔗 BDSM & kink-friendly spaces — watch, explore, or surrender
🔥 Erotic performances designed to captivate, tease, and ignite your senses
🍷 A decadent atmosphere, thick with temptation and unspoken desires
💃 A crowd of like-minded hedonists, ready to play
Our event spans across four levels, filled with interactive experiences, daring games, and plenty of sexy nooks & crannies.
Ticket numbers are limited for this event and it will definitely sell out! Don't miss out - get your ticket while they are still available (NO DOOR SALES).
BYOB - our bar will be fully stocked with glasses, ice & mixers, and we'll be happy to look after your bottle for you behind the bar.
Please ensure that you and any guests you are bringing are familiar with our Code of Conduct. As a member of Lovely Fate, you are responsible for your own conduct as well as that of any guests you bring.
For more info about our events, please visit https://lovelyfate.com/about/
FAQs
Are there ID or minimum age requirements to enter the event?
This event is 21+ only, and you will need to show ID at the door
Is there a bar with drinks for purchase?
No. This event is BYOB. Our bar will be fully stocked with glasses, ice & mixers, and we'll be happy to look after your bottle for you behind the bar, but drinks are not available for purchase.
What time do I need to arrive by?
Doors open at 8:30. If it’s your first time at one of our play parties (or the first time of a guest that you are bringing with you), you need to arrive by 9:15 so that you can join a brief newcomer’s welcome and orientation. If everyone in your group has attended before, then you can arrive any time between 8:30 and 9:45.
Can I bring my toy bag?
Of course, bring all that fun stuff! There will be play spaces and equipment for your use, and you are welcome and encouraged to do your own play scenes.
How can I contact the organizer with any questions?
Please email us with any questions at hello@lovelyfate.com
Is STI testing required?
While STI testing is not required to attend, we’re now offering wristbands to attendees who submit test results dated within one month of the event for HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia. This small step fosters a community where openness, respect, and well-being go hand in hand. For the most comprehensive approach, we recommend oral, urinal, and anal testing. If you're unsure where to get tested, consider local clinics or at-home services for a quick and discreet option.
Once your results have been reviewed and approved, you’ll receive your wristband at check-in. Submit your results here: lf.live/upload-results
What's the refund policy?
Please see our refund policy here.
What does “All-play” party mean?
We offer different types of play parties - some which are BDSM-focused, some which are Lifestyle (aka sex party)-oriented, and some which are a hybrid of both, which we call All-play parties. At All-play events such as this one, we offer separate areas which are conducive to each type of play. Get your BDSM on in the beautiful fully equipped dungeon in our new third floor Penthouse. Enjoy erotic play in the second floor Loft. And of course, you can hang out, watch & chill in the main room where there will be DJs, performances and good vibes all night long.
All-play does NOT mean that all attendees are expected to participate in play.
I'm new and not sure what to expect. Will I be expected to participate in play?
Newcomers are welcome, and there is zero pressure to participate in play. You are welcome to just hang out and watch / socialize (fully clothed) if you would like. For more info, please read here https://lovelyfate.com/about/. Come check it out… you’ll love it!