SHIBARI NIGHT - Strappado
When: Jan 02, 2026 at 7:00pm
Where: Sawtelle (90064) *Please note, we are no longer in West Hollywood
An evening of erotic artistry, deep connection, and beautifully twisted tension.
Arms bound behind. Chest exposed and arching. Breath quickening as rope tightens. Ready to feel vulnerability become pleasure? In this special edition of Shibari Night, we'll guide you through foundational techniques, finishing with the Strappado—an arms-behind configuration where every knot pulls the body into submission and elegance.
Whether you're a complete beginner or a seasoned rigger, drawn to binding or being bound, this night offers space to discover how restraint speaks louder than words.
Details
Enter SHIBARI NIGHT at Lovely Fate, where rope becomes conversation and bodies learn a new dialect. Whether you're discovering your first tie or refining your craft, this is your chance to practice restraint as an art form in a welcoming, playful atmosphere.
Expect clear instruction, partner practice sessions, and dedicated space to experiment, watch, or lose yourself in the craft of constraint.
✨ Open to all experience levels
✨ Bring a friend or come solo, pairs will be formed
✨ Wear comfortable clothing that allows for movement
Let the knots awaken your nature.
7:00 - 7:30: Arrival
7:30 - 8:15: Tie of the Night demo
8:15 - late: Open format - Tie, practice, meet, mingle, watch & learn. We’ll play some tunes, and you can hang out and have fun.
What is Shibari?
Shibari is the Japanese art of rope bondage—an intimate and beautiful practice where rope is used to create connection, sensation, and sometimes stunning visual designs on the body. While it can be erotic, it’s not always sexual. For many, it’s a way to build trust, explore power dynamics, or simply enjoy the meditative, sensual experience of being tied or tying someone else.
At its core, shibari is about consent, communication, and connection—and it welcomes curious newcomers just as much as seasoned rope lovers.
Rucifer
Rucifer is a professional and lifestyle Dom with nearly 20 years of experience in the scene. He specializes in the healing and psychological aspects of play, and relishes in creating a safe space for others. He is a passionate BDSM educator, and his entertaining teaching style make his classes fun, as well as highly informative. He has taught at such institutions as: USC, UCLA, Chapman University, Cal State Fullerton, Exxotica, and Stockroom University. He also enjoys being a live event performer, and has performed at AVN, DomCon and Lovely Fate - where he was the creative director for the acclaimed BDSM Theatre performance “Surrender: Sacred Love”.
FAQs
What is the start and end time?
Please arrive between 7pm and 7:30.
The demo will start promptly at 7:30, and the event ends at 10:30pm.
Do I need to bring a partner to tie with?
Nope! Regardless of whether you are more interested in tying or being tied, you are welcome to come solo if you’d like! We’ll be teaching some ties that can be learned & practiced without a partner, and there will be other people attending solo if you’d prefer to partner with someone. Plus, there will be plenty of interesting things happening if you just prefer to watch & socialize.
Is play allowed at this event?
This is a rope-focused social & learning event. All kinds of rope-oriented play, sensation play, sensual touching and light impact are allowed & encouraged. Sexual play and hand-to-genital contact are not allowed at this event. Specifics of any intended play must be discussed & agreed with your play partner prior to starting your rope scene.
Will people be getting naked?
Many people enjoy the sensation of rope directly on skin, so attendees are welcome to undress to your underwear if you like (optional). As this is not a play party, we ask that everyone please at minimum keep their underwear on at this event. Please note that it is also perfectly valid & normal to keep your clothes on while being tied if you prefer - in which case we recommend wearing light and comfortable clothing.
Are there ID or minimum age requirements to enter the event?
This event is 21+ only, and you will need to show ID at the door
Will there be food & drinks provided?
We’ll provide water. Feel free to bring any other beverages you’d like to enjoy for after the demo & tutorial has concluded.
How can I contact the organizer with any questions?
Please email us with any questions at hello@lovelyfate.com
What's the refund policy?
Please see our refund policy here.
I'm new and not sure what to expect. Will I be expected to participate in play?
Newcomers are welcome, and there is zero pressure to participate in play. You are welcome to just hang out and watch if you want. For more info, please read here https://lovelyfate.com/about/. Come check it out… you’ll love it!