SURRENDER: BDSM Night
When: Sept 5, 2025 at 8:30pm
Where: Sawtelle (90064) *Please note, we are no longer in West Hollywood
SURRENDER
A BDSM-centered night of domination, submission, and intentional power exchange.
Back by popular demand, SURRENDER returns Friday, September 5.
Unlike our typical play parties, SURRENDER invites you into a darker current where domination is art, submission is beauty, and every scene is a ritual of sensation, intention, and presence. This isn’t about the casual or the chaotic…it’s a dungeon experience built for those drawn to depth, discipline, and the thrill of power exchange.
The night centers around live demonstrations of rope bondage, impact, sensation play, and D/s dynamics offered by skilled practitioners who embody the craft of kink with precision and presence. You’re invited to watch. To show off your skills. To ask questions. To feel the tension in the room. To play, if feeling called, with care.
Featured Main Stage Performances:
Orpheus Black — a legend in the lifestyle, delivering a scene performance that embodies power, presence, and connection.
Arcane & Daphne — fireplay artists igniting the night with flames, finesse, and sensuality.
Sir Rucifer, Ten & Lady Lethal — a breathtaking double suspension, blending skill, trust, and aerial beauty.
Interactive Stations:
Master Kink — guiding guests in rope at the shibari station with warmth and expertise.
Badcarob — commanding the flogging station with rhythm, precision, and impact.
SURRENDER spans four floors of curated space. Most areas are centered around bdsm scenes, demonstrations, and connection. We ask that you move with intention by respecting the energy of the room and those around you. Sexual play may only be included as part of power exchange or BDSM play in certain marked areas of the second floor, so as not to affect the BDSM-centric vibe of the rest of the event spaces.
This is a space where domination is art, submission is beautiful, and consent is the ritual that binds it all. Whether you’re an experienced player or simply kink-curious, come with intention and engage with respect.
Dress code
Dark. Polished. Intentional.
Leather, latex, lace, or something that speaks to your power, your submission, or your curiosity. This isn’t a costume party—it’s a curated dungeon.
Details
What Awaits You:
💋 A curated evening for the curious, the confident, and the quietly kinky
🔗 BDSM-friendly spaces across four levels — watch, learn, or engage with care
🔥 Live demonstrations and immersive scenes designed to stir something deep within
🍷 A decadent atmosphere pulsing with tension, intention, and unspoken desire
💃 A like-minded crowd of voyeurs, vixens, and velvet-gloved sadists
While most areas are reserved for scenes, social connection, and demonstrations, the second floor is designated for full sexual play.
This is a night to surrender expectations and step into something darker, deeper, and exquisitely real.
Ticket numbers are limited for this event and it will definitely sell out! Don't miss out - get your ticket while they are still available (NO DOOR SALES).
BYOB - our bar will be fully stocked with glasses, ice & mixers, and we'll be happy to look after your bottle for you behind the bar.
Please ensure that you and any guests you are bringing are familiar with our Code of Conduct. As a member of Lovely Fate, you are responsible for your own conduct as well as that of any guests you bring.
For more info about our events, please visit https://lovelyfate.com/about/
FAQs
Are there ID or minimum age requirements to enter the event?
This event is 21+ only, and you will need to show ID at the door
What does “BDSM play party” mean?
We offer different types of play parties. This one is a BDSM play party, which is different from a more erotically oriented play party. At a BDSM play party, the vibe and play are largely centered around kink and BDSM. Sexual play may be included as part of power exchange or BDSM play in certain marked areas of the second floor, only so as not to affect the BDSM-centric vibe of the rest of the event spaces.
Is there a bar with drinks for purchase?
This event is BYOB. Our bar will be fully stocked with glasses, ice & mixers, and we'll be happy to look after your bottle for you behind the bar but drinks are not available for purchase.
What time do I need to arrive by?
Doors open at 8:30. If it’s your first time at one of our play parties (or the first time of a guest that you are bringing with you), you need to arrive by 9:15 so that you can join a brief newcomer’s welcome and orientation. If everyone in your group has attended before, then you can arrive any time between 8:30 and 9:30.
Can I bring my toy bag?
Of course, bring all that fun stuff! There will be play spaces and equipment for your use, and you are welcome and encouraged to do your own play scenes.
How can I contact the organizer with any questions?
Please email us with any questions at hello@lovelyfate.com
Is STI testing required?
While STI testing is not required to attend, we’re now offering wristbands to attendees who submit test results dated within one month of the event for HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia. This small step fosters a community where openness, respect, and well-being go hand in hand. For the most comprehensive approach, we recommend oral, urinal, and anal testing. If you're unsure where to get tested, consider local clinics or at-home services for a quick and discreet option.
Once your results have been reviewed and approved, you’ll receive your wristband at check-in. Submit your results here: lf.live/upload-results
What's the refund policy?
Please see our refund policy here.
I'm new and not sure what to expect. Will I be expected to participate in play?
Newcomers are welcome, and there is zero pressure to participate in play. You are welcome to just hang out and watch / socialize if you would like. For more info, please read here https://lovelyfate.com/about/. Come check it out… you’ll love it!
