Looking for a solo ticket?

It has always been an important aspect of our events that we have a good gender balance of attendees, for everyone’s enjoyment. To ensure this, we may cap the number of solo attendees for a particular gender at each event. Because of this, the initial allocation of solo male tickets tends to sell out right away when tickets are first made available to each event.

If you’re a solo male and you’d like to come to one of our play parties, here are some tips:

  • Find someone to bring as your date, and then you can get a couple’s ticket and bring your date with you.

  • If you don’t know anyone that would want to come along as your date, there are lots of open-minded folks on Feeld & Fetlife. Try meeting someone on one of those apps to bring along as your date.

  • Come along to one of our non-play party events (like Ropes & Dreams, or one of our other evening workshop) and make friends with someone there to bring as your date.

  • We sometimes release some more solo tickets a few days before the event, once we have a picture of what the gender composition of the attendees looks like for that event. Check back during the week of the event and you might find one is available!

  • Because of the high demand and limited quantity of solo male tickets, we reserve them for especially awesome members of our community. That means those people that are exemplary in their knowledge and adherence to our Code of Conduct. So be sure to not do anything that makes any other attendees feel uncomfortable. Yes, our event crew are very much paying attention to this at our events.

  • Members who subscribe to our ONYX membership level can bypass the usual gendered ticket caps. You can check your membership level and upgrade options on the Account page.